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Is your guy online but not replying? In these difficult times, texting has become really important as a main way of keeping in touch with friends, family and partners, and as a way to express ourselves throughout our day-to-day lives. Associated with this is the new need we all have to learn to flirt over text.
But there are times when we don’t receive a response to our messages – so what could this mean? We shouldn’t automatically think the worst when this happens – there could be multiple reasons why something like this happens, and we’re here to break them down and share with you what can be done.
These are the main reasons why they might not reply
Why is a guy online but not replying? Let’s look at the main reasons why the person on the other end of the messaging app is not replying to your messages straight away. More often than not there is a completely innocent reason for the delay in getting back to you – so don’t automatically think the worst, although unfortunately that’s what we’re trained to do on a psychological level. So, read on for our useful tips and tricks. If he’s online but not replying, this can be very frustrating so it’s good to understand what’s going on!
He needs a break from messaging apps
One of the possible reasons for the delay is that they simply need a break from messaging apps and social media in general. Nowadays our day-to-day lives are filled from morning to night with notifications, pings, message and new friend requests, and it’s hard for anyone to keep track of it all! There are so many people to keep in touch with, and so many new channels of communication, that it can really be overwhelming sometimes, and a healthy break from it all is a very wise thing to consider every now and then.
He is playing hard-to-get
Another reason is that he might be playing “hard-to-get”, or pretending to be less interested in you than he really is as a way of making you more interested in him, especially at the start of a romantic relationship. This is classic behaviour, so much so that in fact sometimes it can even be subconscious! So, don’t worry too much about your texts not being answered immediately – consider whether this might be a likely reason behind such a delay.
He is thinking on how to respond
Sometimes we forget that the person at the other end of the messaging app might be thinking and carefully considering a response to our last message. After all, speed of reply and immediacy aren’t always the most important factors in every text conversation. We all appreciate a careful, well-expressed and well thought-out response to our messages, so it should only be right for us to allow the other person time and space to give us such a response. It’ll be worth the wait!
Your last message seemed to end the conversation
The reason behind a delay in getting back to us might be as straight-forward and innocent as this! We might not have considered that our last message to the other person was taken as the last message of the conversation, and the person we’re talking to might genuinely not see the need to respond. We’ve surely thought that sometimes about an incoming message from someone in our contacts list, so why might others not think the same?
He doesn’t want to look needy
Online but not replying? Some guys, out of pride, arrogance or an excess of self-confidence, might not want to reply quickly to a message they’ve received for fear of seeming too “needy” or “desperate” in the eyes of the sender of the message. They might prefer to come across as aloof or distant. This is not ideal behaviour but it is fairly common, so it’s something to bear in mind when we notice that our messages are not being responded too immediately.
He thinks you’re being needy
And, on the flip side, the other person might have taken your last message as an indication that you’re the one coming across as “needy”, when in fact that might well have been the last thing on your mind! One of the pitfalls of texting conversations is that it’s very difficult to determine tone without seeing or hearing the other person, so these kinds of misunderstandings are unfortunately quite common. Something to remember!
He’s simply ignoring you
He’s online but not replying: what could this mean? Let’s not forget also that one possible reason might actually be that the other person is in fact ignoring us, for whatever reason. They might be busy, they might have other things on their mind at the moment, or they might be in a difficult situation that we are unaware of and which they have decided not to share with us. Best to give them the benefit of the doubt in this case!
So, is he really interested in you?
Are you wondering why your texts are not receiving prompt or immediate responses? At Macbeth Matchmaking, our dating agency understands that effective communication is crucial in modern dating. That’s why we’ve compiled a list of common reasons why he might not be responding, as well as tips on how to improve your communication skills. Plus, check out our article “7 Resolutions That Will Attract Love” for even more tips on how to attract love in the new year. Whether you’re looking for a long-term partner or just getting back into the dating game, Macbeth Matchmaking’s dating agency can help. Visit our website today to learn more about our personalized matchmaking services.